I know I write about the hard times between B and me, but the truth is, we fit each other. When we got together, there was no work involved. We just fit. There was no awkwardness, or uncomfortable silences. We fell into this routine that seemed to be made just for us.
Unfortunately, the hard times are what alot of people write about. They stick out in our minds. Or they are the things we need to work through. The good times dont get much notability.
If there was any moment in our relationship where I doubted my happiness, I would've left. There hasnt been. There have been the not so good times, but something I realize is that a relationship is work. You are not always going to be happy. But the bad times should not outweigh the good, in any relationship.
Not long ago, I wouldve ended any relationship that involved work. I was stuck in this mind set of true love is always bliss. But its not. im not trying to be a cynic, just a realist.
There are lots of facts behind my stories, but there also is a lot of fiction. The inner workings of my relationships remain secret, while i am still able to tell my story. Thats the sort of writer i am.
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